Dog Days of Parenting

There are days when I wonder how I am going to raise my three kids. Okay, those are most of the days in the year. There are days when my oldest son drives me absolutely crazy and I wonder if his mouth stopped moving if he would still breathe. There are days when my daughter is pouting and whining and I wonder where she could possibly have learned this bad habit. There are days when my youngest boy is crying most of the day and I wonder if my head will every stop aching.


These are the things you never think about when you are falling in love with someone. No, you picture picket fences and bruised knees covered in band-aids. You imagine baking banana bread as your children knit scarves by the fire (no that might have been a Jane Austen book).


Parenting is hard most of the time. People are difficult all of the time. Just when you think you will be driven to madness, one of your offspring says something loving or funny, and you remember why you carried that sweet thing through 40 weeks of torture. And you remember why you looked like a beached whale and waddled to the bathroom every 15 minutes. Yes, you know that these dog days will eventually go away, and you will be left with an empty house. In the mean time, you look forward to the minute they are all in bed and Ben & Jerry calls your name from the freezer.


5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Theresa
    Apr 07, 2008 @ 08:36:55

    I’ve heard that even when they leave home they still give you worries, but at least you’ll have more time for blogging. Until then stock up on Ben & Jerry’s. 🙂

  2. rjlight
    Apr 07, 2008 @ 08:51:43

    Theresa — We are stuck with them forever! 🙂

  3. Novembrance
    Apr 07, 2008 @ 09:02:30

    Yup, that’s me, with the constant waddling to the bathroom.

    Daniel’s napping now; maybe I’ll break out the Dulce de Leche.

  4. BrentD
    Apr 27, 2008 @ 10:45:30

    I don’t want to frighten you, but before the end they often stay up later than you and a padlock is required to protect your ice cream.

  5. rjlight
    Apr 28, 2008 @ 08:07:36

    Novembrance — love that Dulce de Leche!

    BrentD — STOP, I won’t stand for ice cream thievery.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: